|not really that messy, but you get the idea|
Over the weekend, I walked past my studio and said "Woooh, looks like someone's creating things in there!" Navah laughed, "Is that what we're calling messy these days?"
"When it's in my studio, it is," I smirked.
We both laughed.
And then I thought about it for the rest of the day.
When I'm really in my creative space, when I'm painting and scheming and cooking and making things, my home looks like a disaster. The mess is huge - it can spread across multiple rooms. And sometimes I have to leave it like that for a day or four or a week or more while I tend to other things or think about what comes next.
And thank goodness I have the space (and the understanding spouse) to do that. To make an enormous mess in the name of creating something special.
That's what I was thinking as I got back to my painting project on the floor of my studio. And as I brushed on the metallic paint, I had this realization.
My life is messy. I'm always saying that.
It's messy and disorganized and chaotic and difficult. I'm always trying to figure out some way to add more structure, to contain things, to clean it up. And I'm not just talking about my house or my car or my inbox or my desk. I'm talking about my life. I'm talking about my thoughts and emotions, my behavior, my dreams, and my love.
I spend so much time wishing it would all make sense. I want to know why I feel what I feel, and I want to be able to turn it off if it doesn't suit me.
I told my therapist the other day that every time I am feeling upset or experiencing anxiety, my first instinct (and often my only instinct) is to make it go away. Return to neutral. I almost never think This feels terrible, and then just stop and feel terrible. I feel terrible while simultaneously attempting to neaten everything up, to figure out (a) why I feel terrible, and (b) what I need to do to stop feeling terrible, and (c) how quickly I can do that thing. And I'd like to figure all that out in a way that can be summed up in an alphabetized outline.
When my life is messy, my instinct is always to try to clean it up.
But guess what we're calling messy these days?
The mess is where the creation happens. Not the cleaning up.
The mess is the indicator. The mess says Work in Progress. The mess says Take Note. Things Are Happening Here.
The mess is being made in the name of creating something special.
Honor the mess.
p.s. No, I can't.
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